Just for the record, I am all for calm, I'm all for civil, I"m all for respectful. Hell, I'm even all for LOVING.

I'm just not for "nicely." There's nothing "nice" about infidelity, and I think we as betrayed spouses LOSE ground by being artificially "nice" to our filandering spouses.

Or is it "spice?" \:\/

- Choc.