One final point - and then I'm out, too. Because frankly, I'm not going to argue. My post was clear. The moderator suggested we give solution based suggestions ... I did. In fact, I'm the only one who did. And I suggested something tried and tested that has worked for me. The rest of the banter seems nothing more then defensive posturing and justification for our own agendas and bias. I'm not participating.
FIB - you know where I am and from where I come. There is another way. Painful? Yes. More painful then divorce? Hmmmm - I can't answer that one. But I don't think so. FIB, I say what I say because I've looked in your eyes and can see the pain in your soul. Of the posters tonight, the 3 divorced people all say the same thing - the pain will not go away when the court hands you a piece of paper.
Standing in front of a judge recounting your W's failings in public doesn't get you closer to your goal.
But that is the optimist in me. Believing in faith, hope and love - and not D.
Email me privately if I can help you in any way whatsoever.
I'm out .... off to pack. I'm taking my W in Las Vegas for the weekend.
Me - 43 and She -36. No kids. Married 7 yrs - Together 14 yrs
