Wow, it's so predictable and pathetic. My H was the same way (probably still is, but as we are not living together I don't actually know). And I have yet to see an OW on here that is remotely as good as the person they are leaving.
Michelle, Thanks for the link, it was very informative. I especially liked this part. I think it fits my H and his HO perfectly.
Romantic Infidelity
Surely the craziest and most destructive form of infidelity is the temporary insanity of falling in love. You do this, not when you meet somebody wonderful (wonderful people don't screw around with married people)
This describes both of them since they were both married.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon