2nd Noah hi Im sorry I know how much all this hurts do you really think H will go thru with it or is he wanting you to do it so he doesnt have to? I cant tell you to file or not but Can you go and get some legal advice..just so you have it I went to a L last june when H moved out I didnt file just got info that helped me relax and showed me how much I would get even if he files, it doesnt mean its over
as far as them leaving everything it is strange and hard to believe but they all do it they give up everything their homes, all or most possessions,kids, wives, security, family, friends ect
hang in there at the beginning we all lost weight, could sleep and the pain was beyond managable somehow we get thru ICounseling helpful to have a safe place to talk and heal peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow