2nd Noah
hi
Im sorry I know how much all this hurts
do you really think H will go thru with it or is he wanting you to do it so he doesnt have to?
I cant tell you to file or not
but
Can you go and get some legal advice..just so you have it
I went to a L last june when H moved out
I didnt file just got info
that helped me relax and showed me how much I would get
even if he files, it doesnt mean its over

as far as them leaving everything
it is strange and hard to believe but they all do it
they give up everything their homes, all or most possessions,kids, wives, security, family, friends ect

hang in there
at the beginning we all lost weight, could sleep and the pain was beyond managable
somehow we get thru
ICounseling helpful to have a safe place to talk and heal
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow