Sorry, I forgot to ask.....are you now his spokeperson as it is too painful for him to speak about.?? Hmmm.....
Not sure what the point of this is Jeanette.
FIB is a friend, and in my world we would do anything we could to help support a friend. Including letting him know when he's right OR wrong. I'm sorry if this bothers you.
But perhaps you're right. Maybe I've taken too active a role today in trying to get people to ALLOW FIB to make his own decision.
If you ever do get a chance to talk to him directly, feel free to ask if I have ever told him what to do. I don't advise Jeanette, I listen and I let him know if I think he's being reasonable and rational, and if it sounds like he's thought things through. And I support him. Because I've been there too, and I didn't have to live with it in my face every day.
I'm not sure what's contradictory about being sure about what you're doing but wishing it could be otherwise.
I'm sure that God felt the same way in the garden with Adam and Eve. I KNOW I've felt that way many times in raising my two boys. Sometimes the right thing to do is still painful. It doesn't make it any less right.
Sorry I've offended you.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
