I'm late to this party. I recommend a strong drink for this not on an empty stomach. Or chamomile tea also good.
A sort of quote from the last thread, "you just never know with him". That was from a few days ago and I could not respond at the time.
This man has been untrustworthy and you give him all the ammunition he needs to manipulate you further. The very last thing the one I was involved with said was you need a life where you can be "in the loop" like that was a bad thing.
I make a mean chocolate torte type thing and then add fresh raspberries with like a raspberry compote (is that the right name for when you boil some berries down with sugar and wine) and drizzle it all together
very rich but
very delicious
it's more pie like than cake like which is why I can do it!!!
The one and only time I ever tried a chocolate torte was when I was a kid. My dear mother spent most of a whole day making the horrid thing. It was, without a doubt, the worst thing my mom has ever made. We gave it to the dog and even he would not eat it but buried it instead. That was around 1977 and we still laugh about it and wonder if it is still buried in the yard? BTW, that was the only thing that dog would not eat. I am laughing to myself as I tell this because it is such a legend in our family.
Me 45 WAW 46 Married 23yrs D22 S18 D12 W moved out 1/12/07 Divorce Final 2/06/08