sgctxok....I'm listening.....

[Jeanette1120]

FIB is there. He's living with it everyday. I trust that his head is screwed on straight. He had the opportunity to say that he wanted to "start again." He declined. I'm doing my best now to support him through these next steps,

even as I know that in his heart he will always wish it could turn out differently

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Is that not contradicting?


He declined.

Yet you know he knows that he wished things woud have turned out differently???

Would it be best Bill, if we all just sat back, gave FIB some breathing room and let him make his own decisions?? Including you?

It's a personal one. I understand it. He does not need help in making a decision that will affect his and his childrens entire lifeteime. He, I believe from earlier posts has let go of the little boy and is now wearing big boy pants.....right?

Funny...my husband couldn't make the decision either on his own, he had friends help him make it.

With that, I will now bow out of this as it is so painful to read. I know it must be killing him inside to do.

Sending all my blessings to you FIB. It's a long road to peace.

Jeanette

Sorry, I forgot to ask.....are you now his spokeperson as it is too painful for him to speak about.?? Hmmm.....I remember sobbing over the keyboards for so long.

again...just trying to understand when enough is actually enough.