Wife read letter today. Said she wants to talk about it but has not called yet. We'll see what happens. She says that I need to be prepared because I will not like what I hear. But I know that I just want honesty between us. Maybe we can move forward after this. Hopefully together.
Just to clarify W doesn't lie to my kids about OM. Just me. She told them a long time ago and had them keep it a secret. They know who she sees when she leaves for the weekend. I'm just concerned because they will remember and will resent her later. I think D already does a little. But I think W sugar coats it to pacify the kids. Its sad that she says these things to our kids and her friends. Especially when her actions around me are totally different. That's why I choose to stay on the ride
