May I ask you this- Other than the obvious, why do you fear him filing so much that it may make you jump the gun on it? I do understand wanting to have some control, but I really caution against acting out of fear. I believe you will live to regret that, no matter how this all shakes out.
You will find you can ask me ANYTHING and I will tell u the truth! (One of my downfalls...)
WHY DO I FEAR HIM FILING...
Wow I have to think about it. Of course CONTROL (another downfall..ha!) FEAR - yes that he will "win" yet again..he gets what he wanted in the first place.FEAR- she will gain I will loose. FEAR--- that it will be final. That everything he said is true - he doesn't love me..is happy to be without me and I loose. I loose the best friend I ever had. (or so I thought.)
Him filing --- it was what he wanted all along. NOT ME. Humiliation --the papers coming to me..
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
