Now, I'm going to be a party pooper and predict that once more the Tx will mysteriously remove his non-existent car/van from the airport parking place by having his "friend" who has a haulage business take it down to him. Voilà, you will have been fed yet another story and won't have been able to check out the existence of the vehicle and therefore the fact that he didn't get anywhere near you around Christmas time.
At this point you will finally get it and shout "Eureka! I've sussed this guy out!"
And that's the last you or we will ever hear of him!
Goodnight all!
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
I didn't use to ask myself those types of questions before The D.
I use to just allow myself to get swept up in that feel good feeling and bask in the warmth of companionship. And I use to block out anything that interfered with that feeling and went to great lengths to see what I wanted to see b/c well we all want to love and be loved - what harm can a few little white lies I tell myself really do...
There is also that feeling that if you lose this one - there isn't anyone one else out there. That it is better to compromise with the one that you have than to risk having no one.
These are fears we all have. I have learned that it is better to release the R's that aren't working - it is the only way to make room for the ones that do work. It has worked for me with respect to friendships and I am starting to believe that it may just work with potential P R's as well...
Anyway, I am rambling on and on about my perspective based on my own experiences. These may or may not apply to you.
You know I have never actually had Baileys. What does it taste like?
This is the perfect weather for a wee bit of Baileys in your cup of coffee before you step out into the cold!
When I was in law school in Vermont, in the winter, I use to add Baileys to my coffee, walk to class in the freezing cold, and enjoy my piping hot coffee (with increasingly larger amounts of Baileys as winter went on and on) Yes, this was for my class that started at 8 in the morning!
