I can tell u beware...I had a close friend who I thought was a mutual friend of H and mine....now Ill keep this short but bottom line was when she found out we were seperating she pretended to be my friend and all the while was checkin in with h to see if he was avaialable..you know just being his friend.....little did she know he already went down that path with his co worker and was already invested in an affair...anyway this woman had been my friend for years..i later thought back and how she always made comments about my H , back then I never thought much about it