While no one judges someone here for having had enough, giving up....FIB sends signals/sentiments that he isn't really sure. May he really doesn't want to give up and feels like he has to.
He can, but he doesnt' have to. Michele has evidence that MANY marriages are saved at the 11th hour. Is it easy. Oh...definitely not. Not even close. Is it possible...yes.
I have actually seen it myself. The couple went to court (BIL and SIL) all that was left was to sign the papers. They didn't.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001