As fer as the W justification, I think that's what they all do, try to put the blame on the LBS. By the way, I was drugged not the W. I was on so much that the room temp was 67 degrees and I was still sweating all the time, aah good times, not!
Haven't spent the weekend with my aunt/big sister, maybe in a couple of weeks. Need to work on replacing a portion of the kitchen ceiling this weekend, bath tub upstairs leaked down onto ceiling and had to cut holes to find tub and find source of leak. I'm thinking of pizza weekend the following weekend. The kids will love that.
Got home from cardiac rehab last night, W's car was in the driveway. Lots of thoughts ran through my mind but pushed them back and didn't get my hopes up. Stuff like maybe she's here wanting to reconcile, work on M. She came to give S25 his birthday card, he's 26 now. She was pleasant, a step up from when she first dropped the Dbomb. I walked her out when she left told her we need to get together to talk about what she wants from the house, if we can come up with a list that we're happy with we'll save money on the attys. I said we could do it over a dinner. She said OK.
S26 wants to be a police officer and doesn't want to sign a lease then have to move into the city or area where he gets a job.
I was wondering with what I said about agreeing with her about deserving someone better than her and it got back to her. She got defensive about it, if that might be an approach to take. kind of acting that she's not worthy of having me. Just wondering.
Did a stress test today, all OK, cleared to referee soccer again. I think I'll start with 14 and under to start with. Signed up for 2 tournaments at the club where D19 used to play out of. They have girls games one weekend , the next is the boys. They get about 450 teams for each group. Looking forward to some running around, although I did tell W if she wants to work on M I will give up reffing to have more time with her.
Mike
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26
