Thank you for replying, Sara. I have been doing the things you (and ntl) suggested, though its only been a few days. This seem better and feel better. I had a rough day so he is bringing me home a latte (his suggestion).
I really need to get over his lust/attraction whatever it is that he has for his co-worker. I realize I am lucky that he told me instead of acting on it. He didn't have to tell me..... I have too just tell myself that is a good thing. I hate feeling jealous! Its an awful feeling!