Mopsey, There is no way to figure out what is going on w/him right now. All you can do is be there for him and to pray for him. That's why it's very important that you take care of yourself, keep the focus on you and your children. They are such a mess and emotionally stunted that they don't know which end is up from one minute to the next. Step back and allow God to do his work.
I'm thinking and praying for you and your family.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
