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Hey Holly!

Tigger is offering to donate a truck to the cause and drive it out in spring/summer. We shall see. She's hanging in the Panama canal or thereabouts right now. Hmmmmphft!

I was good, I didn't even laugh too much while digging him out of the snowbank. Pretty funny. We'll see if we go out again....

Yep, we're all surviving here. Most of us with panties.

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I thought you were Panamaing too? Dating must be interfering.
I like that kind of interference! So, what does he look like?
Will he stand still for a Hoolly inspection?

2 part quiz.

1. Turn around, let me see your butt.
2 Now say something intelligent.

Hard to do, after #1.


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D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature.
Divorce final October 31, 2008.
OW looks like bad history. Over.
Still hopeful. Baby steps.
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I do have a serious serious question....And I'm not looking for validation or flattery or anything like that.

Okay, it seems like every (single?) guy I meet says "Your husband is/was a fool" or similar.

How the heck would they know that? I mean, maybe I'm a closet raving witch who throws shoes and spaghetti?

I just pretty much write it off as not knowing what else to say, but it just seems weird.

My $.02.

Any other babes out there get this all the time?

J

PS. Girlfriends say I don't seem desperate!

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Originally Posted By: Holly06

2 part quiz.

1. Turn around, let me see your butt.
2 Now say something intelligent.

Hard to do, after #1.


*snert*

Ouchie, pulled a muscle....

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Originally Posted By: FriendlyOneDuh
Okay, it seems like every (single?) guy I meet says "Your husband is/was a fool" or similar.

How the heck would they know that? I mean, maybe I'm a closet raving witch who throws shoes and spaghetti?


I guess they would be more correct to say "From what I can see, your husband was a fool! Though you may be a closet raving witch, who throws shoes and spaghetti. Not that there's anything wrong with that."

What do they know?
You are attractive.
You are smart.
You are funny.
You are easy to get along with.
And a bunch of other good stuff!

What would you think of a husband that would leave you?

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F,

I think it is a truthful way of flattery. Men know, or have learned that flattery gets them a little somethin' somethin'.

The rub is they also know that closely following the truth works even better!


In any case, flattery is a great tool to use in dating situations. Especially early on.


Now the disclaimer:
I just shoot from the hip. Have no real experience to back it up with!


But, I do know you.
You are an amazing woman. \:\)



But I don't want to date you. :0


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You are no dummy. You would not consider hanging with one either.

So you know they are smart and now you need to accept that what they have to say makes sense to them. Let it make sense to you.

Next time he falls in the snow, say "Roll over, Holly wants me to describe your butt." And she wants to know if you are wearing panties?


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Crud, Holly. I thought we had something special! :-))))

Thanks Jeff. I've also been told that I just exude love, and I laugh from my soul.

Awwwwwww! *blushing*

And that I do have an infectious giggle. It's like leprosy, without the island....

J

PS. "Not that there's anything wrong with that" made me *snort* How very unladylike of me!

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Originally Posted By: dry_heat

What would you think of a husband that would leave you?


That he had/has his reasons, and I hope that he is happier where he is now.

Originally Posted By: Was2sad

So you know they are smart and now you need to accept that what they have to say makes sense to them. Let it make sense to you.


Yes sir! *Benny Hill salute* I never ask, of course, because that would be rude. It just bothers (?) or intrigues (?) me a touch, that is all.

I am trying to bring a touch of serious here. For a very limited time....

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Is the seriousness over? I don't want to ruin it.....

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