Status 2 - W friendlier but still very distant

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Kalni, Kerry - Thanks for stopping by. None of us are any wiser - we just support one another in this mess in the hope we do not give up until the very end and even then we can hold our heads high and be at peace inside. I have the draft settlement in my mailbox the last couple of days and so far have not had the courage to read it; tho' I've also been extremely busy.

I met W for breakfast this morning at a cafe again on the pretext of S7. But my intention is always also to sense things. I noticed she's taken out her wedding and engagement rings from the last time we met 2-3 weeks ago. Some here say this does not mean anything but I try to read into every subtle change since there's not much contact at all. This change and the "settlement" does not bode well. I think a man needs to feel that his W is faithful to him and trusts him with all her heart. So the rings gone made W look very unattractive to me. She also seems so full of herself and still does not show one bit of concern for me.

I have not talked to her about M/R at least the last 3 months; when she's brought up the settlement I said I'm leaving it to the lawyers. But maybe its ultimatum time now.

Kalni, so far I have fought the good fight but I feel my M is a lost cause and I'm on the verge of "pulling the plug". If I go ahead it means its "over" and if I don't it could mean further "litigation and hostility". Like you, I feel there's a limit to my patience and a point of no return and so far I've waited over a year tho' I've not always been wise or patient.