its interesting, my therapist and I were talking today and she was saying that in some ways, being divorced is harder than if your spouse had died. d is more equated (emotional response at least) to if you spouse had commited suicide. apparently the stages of grieving are similar.
not saying any is really easy, of course, just thought it was interesting.
Lissie, I still have a hard time telling people we are separated. I know I need to get over that. must be hard to check divorced.
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