I do have a serious serious question....And I'm not looking for validation or flattery or anything like that.

Okay, it seems like every (single?) guy I meet says "Your husband is/was a fool" or similar.

How the heck would they know that? I mean, maybe I'm a closet raving witch who throws shoes and spaghetti?

I just pretty much write it off as not knowing what else to say, but it just seems weird.

My $.02.

Any other babes out there get this all the time?

J

PS. Girlfriends say I don't seem desperate!