I too am married to my H and his cell phone. Its like crack for them. Before this he never looked at his phone unless it rang, now its every 3 minutes or so, its actually pretty pathetic.
He told me today that he didn't want to break it off with the OW because she is fun...ya think? I know mine is a gambling addict as well, so I think this is just one more to add to the list. He went from 10 texts before this to 2303 last month...thats not addiction though, he just has a lot to say (lol).
Forgive me for saying so, but unless he is willing to change his number and not have any contact with her, he isn't working on anything...sorry, but I speak from experience. Believe what you see, not what you hear.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option