Trust me, if you can maintain calm and remain friends then things will go much easier for you and your kids. I am not able to have a civil word with my H right now because my anger comes out in nearly everything I say. He is totally calm and fine with destroying our family and I can't bear it.
Just know, that in time things can change if you keep DBing. Stay focused on your goal - restoring your marriage. Friendly separation is ok but make sure you don't share too much of what is going on in your life with him. Be aloof.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
