I love that you all care about each other so much and have strong feelings coming from your experiences.
The point of this board is to help each other by brainstorming solutions related to techniques described in DIVORCE REMEDY and DIVORCE BUSTING and to help each other save their marriages as best we can.
A strategy that includes filing for divorce does NOT fall in line with that.
Of course, if someone is at the point that they have given all they can, are too broken down, or their spouse has left them....we support them and help them heal as best we can.
This board has a purpose.
With that in mind.......
What are some ways our friend can 'BEGIN WITH THE MIND OF A BEGINNER?' _________________________ sg
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For the first time in 2 years...outside of being placed in an inspirational post 1 1/2 years ago.....a divorcebusting moderator has posted here.
sgctxok....you posted that divorce is an option...for those at the end or when their spouse leaves....I am open, if you are up to the challenge, to post your thoughts here...because my filing requires me to go forward by this week.
No moderator has ever posted to me otherwise.
I am listening.
FIB
This was the beginning of this thread.
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What are those who ask this question wanting FIB to do?
For FIB to answer the question. If FIB loves his W but is done then he is done and the posters offer support and commiserate. If FIB loves his W but has guts left to give more (at the chance of more suffering!) then the posts here should reflect how to help.
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And I wonder if, were they walking in his shoes, if THEY could do that.
My shoes might not be the same size as FIB or many here but they've been on my feet for many years while I DO this. I might not do it well, but I DO it.
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
