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Re: It's longer than you think, Dad! Tamashii #1351218 02/08/08 07:14 PM
Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow B brandnewday Member
brandnewday Member B Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow	((((((((((David)))))))))) How are you doing? Sending love and hugs and prayers. There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.

Re: It's longer than you think, Dad! brandnewday #1351274 02/08/08 07:48 PM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,711 Piedmont, SC 29673 T Tamashii OP Member
OP Tamashii Member T Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,711 Piedmont, SC 29673	One step at a time. I miss your wisdom. Things are kinda bleak from where I'm sitting. David The fires of true love can never be quenched, because the source of its flame is God Himself! - Shulamith

Re: It's longer than you think, Dad! Tamashii #1351288 02/08/08 07:56 PM
Joined: Jan 2007 Posts: 1,491 Minnesota Going Solo Member
Going Solo Member Joined: Jan 2007 Posts: 1,491 Minnesota	"Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; but remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for." Epicurus (341 BC - 270 BC) Too often, the bleakness takes hold and makes it hard for you to see the sun. I know it's hard to get back up and move forward, but you must if you want to learn to be the better man that turns the heads of those around you and makes her regret the decision she made. "I made the wall of shadow draw back, beyond desire and act, I walked on. Oh flesh, my own flesh, woman whom I loved and lost, I summon you in the moist hour, I raise my song to you."

Re: It's longer than you think, Dad! Going Solo #1351334 02/08/08 08:31 PM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,711 Piedmont, SC 29673 T Tamashii OP Member
OP Tamashii Member T Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,711 Piedmont, SC 29673	Thanks GS, I appreciate the input. David The fires of true love can never be quenched, because the source of its flame is God Himself! - Shulamith

Re: It's longer than you think, Dad! Going Solo #1351446 02/08/08 09:55 PM
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brandnewday Member B Joined: Apr 2005 Posts: 9,678 Somewhere over the rainbow	WOW!!! GS, So deep! David, I will try to call you over the weekend. Maybe we can do a 3 way phonecall again.... Let me just reiterate...PHONE CALL There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.

Re: It's longer than you think, Dad! Tamashii #1355154 02/12/08 10:15 PM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,711 Piedmont, SC 29673 T Tamashii OP Member
OP Tamashii Member T Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,711 Piedmont, SC 29673	Well, I sogned my half of the papers. In in L.A., she's in San Luis Obispo, so we don't have to see each other. Neat and clean, huh? She doesn't even have to face me. What a coward. I will enjoy spend MY money! David The fires of true love can never be quenched, because the source of its flame is God Himself! - Shulamith

Re: It's longer than you think, Dad! Tamashii #1355164 02/12/08 10:20 PM
Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA Valentine Member
Valentine Member Joined: May 2006 Posts: 3,848 TEXAS, USA	Good for you David! Your part of this hellish experience is over with. Now, go out and have fun (but not too much fun---we don't wanna have to bail you outta jail!) Good things are coming your way.... Hugs, Valentine Aug '06: H moved out July '08: H had a kid with the OW May 12 '09: emancipation day "Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller

Re: It's longer than you think, Dad! Valentine #1410841 04/07/08 05:36 PM
Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,711 Piedmont, SC 29673 T Tamashii OP Member
OP Tamashii Member T Joined: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,711 Piedmont, SC 29673	Sorry for taking so long to post. My heart hasn't been in it. D was final March 18. She's really good! She did it without seeing me or talking to me. I signed the papers so her broker will release the $60K to me. I will have that by April 18. Receiving this money gives me no pleasure. I've made jokes about it to take the edge off, but all I ever wanted was to talk to her. Should I stay on this forum, or move to "Continuing to Make a Blatant Fool of Myself After the Divorce?" I haven't given up. Is it persistence or stubborness? David The fires of true love can never be quenched, because the source of its flame is God Himself! - Shulamith

Re: It's longer than you think, Dad! Tamashii #1410848 04/07/08 05:46 PM
Joined: Feb 2007 Posts: 3,313 M missmyfriend Member
missmyfriend Member M Joined: Feb 2007 Posts: 3,313	I am so sorry you are going through this. Maybe you haven't given up because you know you aren't supposed to? Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God

Re: It's longer than you think, Dad! missmyfriend #1410869 04/07/08 05:58 PM
Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646 J Jack_Three_Beans Moderator
Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	David, Did they add that forum this weekend? Hell man, stay here, MLC and all that. Sorry to hear how things went down, sorry that she couldn't even face you. You haven't given up, and I really don't like that term much anyway, because you're tanks aren't empty, you're not ready too. It is not because you are stupid or foolish, it's just not in you to stop. Call it what you want, but don't let anyone else put a label on it. You do for you. Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

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