Well screw it, I feel widowed and I am only SEPARATED....not even D'd and not even filed or anything...but still...he is still dead...in so many ways...

yeah, why DO we need boxes for that...isn't there a law somewhere that says they cannot ask us that????

Well....there oughta be.


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller