Well, what a day yesterday, we went to the marriage counselor together yesterday. I pretty much just sat and listened for this was only the third time W has gone and it was my sixth. The MC was simply trying to get us on the same page. He asked W 10 times if she wanted out of the marriage but she never really answered directly. He kept saying you must let H know so he is not just hanging around on false hope.
.... What do you guys think should I keep DBing or just move on?
What I think, is that you should never, ever, go to that "marriage counsellor" again.
Sounds more like a "divorce counsellor" to me.
"are you ready to get divorced? come on, spit it out, so we can make some 'progress'"
HUH????
very very bad MC.
Not all MC's are equally good. It is not neccessarily a positive thing, to go to "A marriage counsellor". You need to find a good one. One that is marriage-positive, for starters.
yuck.
Anyways.... as far as "keep DBing or more on"...
Whether you decide to keep working on your marriage, is up to you. It's about your own set of morals, and values. How much do YOU value marriage, and marital vows? Dont let others make that determination for you.
Last edited by Dom R; 02/12/0809:21 PM.
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
