I can relate Mishka. I gave the letter to my W right before Christmas 2006. I had sent it to her e-mail account and her comment to me was a sincere thank you. As far as the tough tone with her later about her choices backfired. I think a lot of it depends upon what kind of characteristics you displayed before.

I have instead taken the tact of unconditional love.


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God