I'm not doing anything, waiting to see if he's going to do anything. I did pick up two things, one funny and one somewhat impersonal. While out shopping, I saw a little plaque that said, "My husband must need glasses because he doesn't see things my way." Figured it was really funny and I'd give it to him if he did something for VDay. In addition, I picked up a nice pen/pencil set for him.
He's very into his career and has his sights on a big promotion soon. It's somewhat of a problem because I told him that if we got divorced that I'd want to move back to the Midwest where my family is and he said he wouldn't move and that he wouldn't let me move the kids away from him.
Valentine's hasn't been big for us (I realize that we should have been a lot more romantic), but this one has a lot of weight on it. Our anniversary came just three weeks after the bomb. We did celebrate, but it was a hollow celebration.
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09