Hi thanks for the words of encouragement everyone. For the first time in 2 weeks I feel that I have at least some idea as to how to fight this D without actually fighting about it.

Addie, I don't have any immediate family (except D) here. My spouses family lives close but I obviously cannot lean on them at this moment. I have a good friend whose H is friends with my H. She has been great.

Today H told this client that he wouldn't be dealing with her after Thursday and she said that was fine. I don't think there is or was much of anything there to begin with. Except stupidty maybe ;\)

I have been reading a lot of posts these past couple days and everyone has been an inspiration to me.


Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*

The end of the DB road