Wow. When is a friend not a friend? Don't know if any of you have this problem but...
I have a close girlfriend, also a friend of my H's. She has now decided that the reason my H left is I controlled him. Her logic is since I have strong opinions and express them and follow my own values that I am controlling. In fact any time I don't agree with someone or don't do what they want its control. Hello???
Are we as adults not allowed to have opinions or likes and dislikes that are different? She then emails to tell me I should believe her point of view not my own. What? I should believe her opinion of my marriage over my own? I don't ask her to believe mine, just say here's mine. So who is the controller here?
