I just did catch up. How did I get so early in your thread. I thought I clicked for the latest. Well, congrats. Was that the real deal? She wants to move back? Whatever you did to change her mind, keep doing that.
Obviously if she continues to actually pursue returning to the relationship, you shouldn't go dark.
You should address the things you started to address and keep the changes going. Maybe even start out with an adventure if you can afford a short one.
I'm happy for you. Some things to remember if things keep working towards her coming back: It isn't always easy. It starts off like a honeymoon, but then the honeymoon ends and you are left with insecurities, etc, and she is left with her own baggage. Counseling, when both parties are interested, does help. You'll worry about her leaving again. You've survived it once and can again. Neediness on your part won't really make you appear more attractive. She'll need to be fairly transparent to you, but don't smother her. Still let her breath since she's been independent.
Good luck to you. And congrats.
Me
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