Another quote I've had for a long time: Another thing in the article I really liked was a statement that this experience of not wanting things to be this way is a link with humanity - a shared experience all over the world. That connects with how I feel about being able to come to this site and remember that my feelings and my experience are not unique and that I have this bond with so many others.
You are so right about this last part. For me it's amazing how many stories are alike and how people react the same way to this kind of loss. And do not compare your feelings to those of others with kids etc. etc. We are all on the same boat here... Pain is pain. The inner struggle is similar too. For me my kids are an extra source of frustration about their well being but also a great source of power for mine. So, after reading all these threads here, I can't really say who is in a worst position or not. It's how each one of us ends up dealing with it that matters.
