If you want to better understand what T is saying about the legal stuff really ruining your chances look at my thread and the struggles I've been thru' because my W filed for divorce instead of working on the M or even separating for a while as your H has done.
I know how restless it is to be in limbo. But you are really pulling it together and even bravely supporting other newcomers. Hope you are also moving along towards your goals listed earlier. We are all supporting you.
Well, fb2,
I have been contemplating on what to do (I haven't used this word for ages). And I know exactly what you mean fb2 about filing and so on. And T , it's the same here in Greece, once you go ahead, you can stop it, but in the process a lot of ugly staff may come out. I actually turned it around with the legal separation papers his L was preparing (which BTW was his ex-girlfriend that he left after meeting me- I am sure she enjoyes it a lot).
I decided I'll keep quiet and distant as said in my goals and you all said (I would have followed your advice anyway). Minimum level of communication (doing great with that, no frustration about it). GALing (I am meeting a friend from Paris haven't seen for ages, she just returned- I am planning a 2 day escape possibly next week to a mountain somewhere- I am going out on Friday night, etc. etc.). Haven't become prettier yet (ALI), haven't started on my painting and I have a couple of orders pending, but I will.
As far as Astrology goes, I know some people think it's weird, but I had a very powerful experience in the past, so I can't ignore that. Of course I am not taking everything as granted and I do believe that me & my H were meant to be together and that power T was talking about still wants it. But I don't know if my H wants it anymore...
