john, i understand what you are saying. it is tough. i have not been dbing too much after we got the phone call. i did as much for her as i could, and she would allow. it is really tough, because i want to just hold her. i comforted her as best i could. along with daughter. unfortunately i have lots of experience in dealing with this sort of thing. lost both of my parents in 1973, four months apart. very hard situation. so i know how much my wife is hurting. she knows i be there at the drop of a hat. tough situation all the way around. i appreciate your input. only the Lord can deal with this effectively. he can use me, i just need to be available.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
