Wonderful post Bill!! I wish I had a way with words as you and Always14 do! Awesome qualities!
Your getting no guilt thrown in any directions from me. Just a need to look for solutions and understanding. Thats it.
She is functioning well enough to do all you said. Yup! I do not disagree that she should be capable of functioning in all those areas alone either.
Enough is enough when the other party simply cannot stand it anymore, there is no love left and all avenues have been ridden down.
Its a tough place to be....
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They are CALCULATED
They certaintly appear to be, but why?? Is she just afraid of being alone?? She is not going to suffer financially thats for sure. So what could be the reason?
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You know what? It IS possible for trust to be destroyed. It IS possible to be hurt so badly, and so often, that you lose the desire you once possessed for someone. And it IS possible that sometimes the only way to find peace for yourself in that situation is to move on and find that peace alone.
ABSOLUTELY!! No disagreement on that either.
Just searching for answers in a somewhat answerless world for the positions we are in.
Jeanette
Change the Policy. Allow PM's Free all of us.
Also some new and improved emoticons would be nice!