Is he going to help support you and the kids, or are you expected to go it alone from now on?
Yes, he's still paying for things. He is going over and above what he is legally entitled to and NEVER misses an opportunity to tell me about it. He's good at throwing it in my face whenever I hint that I don't want to sell the house or buy him out. I am worried that if I decide not to move on the house right now he will start to pull back the support. They I'll see his true colours and so will others!
IC...I think he is using the bills to further jam it down my throat that it is over. He first mentioned it last week. I still can't believe how he doesn't care what a vulnerable position I'm in being on mat leave. He is running so fast that it is completely unreasonable, but NOTHING I say can make him see this. I don't try to make him see it either though, I just go with the flow where I can. I will send him the info...but when I get to it. I'm tired of being pushed around by him so HE can move on with his life. He just called to make arrangements for tonight and asked me where I was going. I just said, 'out to dinner'. That's all. He seemed pretty to the point again. We had a good small talk conversation about D's gymnastics. Now I have to go find something to wear! J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out
