SF
I am a huge fan of James Dobson in so many areas. At first and even second read, his tough love stance seemed like the right way to handle things. I applied it and I saw my W run from me and be even angrier and more distant to all of us. It is possible in time, she would have come back our way but I don't think so. I began to read more about what God says how we are to be toward our spouses. If we are supposed to show love toward our enemy, to do good in return for evil, then are we supposed to treat our spouses worse? I will say that I did like the letter that was recommended in his book to our spouses.

Mishka
It is never too late! Anything is possible!

fig
Thanks fig! Love hearing from you!


Me:56, W:51
D:26,S:24,S:22
Married:18
Bomb 9/27/06
Separated 11/27/06
Divorced 10/6/08
Leaving it up to God