I believe at this moment H is somewhat enjoying hurting me, because he felt so hurt and betrayed before the A. He has said in anger many times "Now you know how I feel." He made a rude comment today, and despite his horrible situation (been in the car 16 hours and stuck in a small town with no power due to snow), I still called him on it. I am tired of it. Time for a change, time for a backbone (as therapist says).

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She also said she had a lot of "I deserve to be happy" thoughts, and she would remind herself of how selfless she had been as a SAHM over the years, and how now maybe it was time for her to have a little FUN in her life.


This is H's thoughts (put sahd in there, as he was one for the past 2 years). He wants to be single, wants to date, 'deserves' fun.......