Thank you for the kind words.

Well, I fully expect more spew from H in an email, but I will not defend myself to him. He is probably at OW's right now, wrapped in her arms and basking in self-righteousness.

The reason I sent the email to him in the first place is because we have had little to no contact and I just needed to do a 180 to break the status-quo.

Is that wrong? I think not, because all I get from him lately is awkward politeness and avoidance. At least this time I got some emotion, even though it was very negative and delusional.