Hang in there. Try to focus on you and your relationship with God and your kids. It is what will get you through. God will be working on your H. Leave that to him. You are doing some amazing things and being the one who is fighting for your M.
The best thing that you can do for your R is to NOT work on it. Get involved. Do things with your kids, don't worry about anyone but you and them. Share all your love with them as I am sure they will be sharing theirs with you.
My kids feel helpless because of our sitch. I have told them that there IS something that they can do to help. So each night that they are with me we pray for the family. I lead them into the prayer, but then I let them say what is in their hearts. I think it has helped them sleep better at night because now they feel like they are helping. It sure helps me.
Keep on fighting for your M! I am praying for you and your H as well as your kids. You can do this! You WILL do this! And you won't be alone. Those of us here on DB are in your corner and so is God.
One day at a time.
-Bryan
Me-45 W-34 T-5 M-3 1/2 s-10 s-12 ILYBNILWY 12/26/07 Sleeping away from home at friend's house(because she says she can't get any sleep otherwise) 1/14/08 1/25/08 We tell kids she is moving out
