Well as the advice of the DB coach, I have not been asking about the OW. But the one time I did ask him if he was going to change his phone number, he said that he didn't feel it was necessary because she was going to change hers. Well she didn't change hers and he hasn't changed his. I don't think he wants to because he doesn't want to cut off all ties from her like I would like him to.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08