Piecing? Sexual issues? hmm...not sure

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Thats all you can do!!

Draw on what was taught in the retro, do the fake it until you make it line of thought!
If you do truly want this to work, then thatis exactly what you will have to do is work! And its bloody hard work!
Thats something I have truly come to realize! That from now on we will have to put work into our marriage, there can't be a day that goes by that we don't in some way work on our marriage.
My love for my H has changed, it has turned into something deeper, I believe truer then we had before all of this, because now we really see each other, warts and all, and now we accept each other for who we are! My goal is no longer to change my H, I have learnt that I can change no one but myself.
I think thats almost were you have to start, you must look at you first, and see your faults, accept them, and then change the bad ones, enhance the good ones.
You can make this work, and you can have feelings for H again, but they wount be the bells and whistle types of feelings, because they don't last, but they will be better in the long run!