Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
I don't know but i think my H might have the winter blahs to some degree. He is quiet but, not rude or ignoring of me. OR maybe it's because OW howorker has to go on nights or a differant shift. Thats just to bad.
I do feel bad for her daughter though as she is a single Mom. I trust that H is not in contact with her any more than he has to but it still makes me happy that the temptation won't be there as long as the change does happen.
OH I almost forgot that when I got home from a confrence that was all day in Syracuse my son was there with the twins and Ashton was showing off for Grandma fell hit his head on my antique trunk and split it wide open! Good thing I have an in with good Docs! It took six stitches and he was so good he sat there with a smile on his face and only when doc accidentally pulled a hair he said you hurt me say your sorry!!
In the mean time I will continue to make myself the greener grass, and man I have to get back on track with my weight from the holidays. I think I will have to do Atkins again.
JAK
Last edited by jak58; 02/06/0803:58 PM.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
Another set of twins??? Wow..does that run in your family?
Hope things are good for you.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Yes they do run on my side of the family. Boy is it a handful and my D wasn't all that excited because we know what we are in for again. BUT she has tried for a long time to get pregnant and so she will definitally take them both.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
he doesn't have to feel he has to entertain so much i think ========================= men have much shorter emotional memory, so he's prob moved on faster than you (perhaps). Hope you feel better! heard vertigo is pretty awful.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
I think he really has moved on. The thing is, he's not into the mushy showing affection and I need that right now. When he was scared that I would end it he was right there but now it's all good in his eyes.
He doesn't say ILY daily but he used to more than now and that tells me he's still out there as far as connection to me goes. I guess it's still going to be a while and all I can do is wait and see. So much has gone on in such a short time with his Dad and now trying to take care of his Mom that he needs a break from all of the pressure I feel too.
Yep, Vertigo stinks.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
Nothing new going on just still feeling uneasy and I know this is about me not him and I have to work through it. I read Alimari's post and that is me to tee right now.
I guess it doesn't help that we have been dumped on by three feet of snow and counting!
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
Hey Jak - sorry you're feeling so uneasy. I know that feeling and it's tough!
Is there any chance you two could have a little getaway weekend? Even if it's just at a hotel nearby? Sounds like you could both really use a break and some R&R...
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
Hey, jak, I agree with Nik, yall need some sort of getaway to combat those winter doldrums.
And did you say your GS hit his little noggin on an antique trunk in your house? Ok, these similarities keep getting more numerous. We, too have a huge antique trunk in our living room. And we are birthday twins, Christmas Eve, no less, and so on and so forth..
Yeah, I think your H has cabin fever, but at least it isn't as bad as that Stephen King movie...
That feeling of uneasiness remains with me alot during the day, no matter what I do, maybe you are just feeling empathetic with your H.
I Can't beleive how much alike we are right down to the trunk in the livingroom and our B-days!
Im starting to think I have cabin fever also.
Tomorrow will tell you a lot with the extra piece of jewlery. Remember if you have to, hold him accountable but speak softly,directly and set your boundries, and do not argue.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
