Being consistent is a huge part of this. That's why it's so important that if you are going to make changes that you do them for yourself. That way they will stick. I had a few backslides where I wasn't consistent and they were usually followed her pulling away again. It's important to be the person who you want to be and be consistent at it...
Me: 29 W: 28 T: 10 M: 7 No kids 2 Dogs and 1 Cat With Parents: 09/16/07 Apartment: 10/13/07 Back Home: ~2/16/2008