CeMar:

What if he threated her physical harm? What if he hit her? What if he had bought a gun and stuck it in the guy's face?

I'm not saying that this woman's POV might not be a little off, but we also do not know the whole story. She's here to GET HELP, not to be called an IDIOT for what she, as yet, cannot SEE. The only way she can GET HELP is if she tells her story, HONESTLY, even if that might hit on some seriously sensitive nerves of those who may or may not have walked, at least a little bit, in her H's shoes.

Judge ye not, and ye shall not be judged, CeMar.