Yes, I saw last night that he was sleeping with his cell phone right next to him on the nightstand. I am not sure if that was because he knows I snoop or because he expected her to call. I have not been asking him questions about her. But come on...common sense tells you that she is bad news. She and her 2 kids recently got kicked out of her apartment and they now live with her mom because she couldn't pay her rent. She is in more debt than you could imagine. My H is not a wealthy person by any means and so I don't know why she thinks he can help. We have our own issues with bills and just barely squeak by. This is going to sound stupid, but if he was going to leave me for another woman, why can't it be someone who is actually a good person?

I am just hoping that he can totally end this affair. I know it is hard for him and I know that he is trying. But he just needs to end all connection to her and change his number. But for whatever messed up reason, he refuses to take that step.

Sara


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08