Mark, you are right. I don't need another person to complete me. I was having a pity party. I just miss that in H. He never once asked me how I was. He helped when he was home, but my 3 yr old had more sympathy than he did. Its part of the normal WAS thing, I am sure. He is distancing himself for whatever reason.
Kimmie Lee, thanks for the chicken soup offer. Sounds really nice to me.