mak0-man....I can only repeat some things that you have already heard (from Jack3beans) et al:
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Gotta be strong for my girls now, who knows what permanent damage has been done to them too, they are finally starting to talk about the string of men they have been seeing, their confusion, their fear, etc. God, what a mess.
Your number one priority right now are your girls. They will choose a man BASED ON YOU. They will also watch and see how YOU treat your wife/ a woman...and expect to be treated similarly. In spite of your W's recent death spiral, you can still handle this with strength, dignity and respect while at the same time maintaining your personal boundaries and safety boundaries for your children. YOU...are their rock and role model.
As for your W...you said it yourself...I'VE said it myself...she can NOT focus on YOU AND YOUR KIDS AND THE M until her issues and illness are treated.
Move forward to protect your children. Help your W get medical/psychological help. Take care of yourself emotionally.
If you recall the story on my thread about the Marine I took care of..well...I admire your strength and courage to not leave your W behind...just get her to safety first and heal yourself.
Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;
