Thanks Saffie for the reply.

I know for a FACT... That when things are bothering you and you feel you don't have anybody to tell... or just talk to it sucks... I mean I have all of you but it still stops short of a "one on one"...
I think this may also be the problem with my W. For some unknown reason she feels that she can't talk to me. I think it has become a "war of Detaching / PMA" She is acting like she does not need me and has a positive attitude (sometimes) and I am doing the same... I am going to make an effort in the next 4 days to get her to tell me how she feels... NOT about our R just open the door and see where it goes...
I mean I have asked her how things went let her say a few words then went about my business. But I think I may need to hang around a little...

I was starting to think maybe she is being like LWB's H and WANTS me to find someone else.... Maybe so she can feel better about herself if I did the same thing... Or just so I will leave her an excuse..... SHE ASKES NO QUESTIONS about ME... what my plans are or who I am going with. I don't know if it is her way of detaching but it makes me feel like I could tell her I am going with a woman and she would not say anything...
Got your e-mail Saffie and I will get back to ya soon... Thanks

I have not worn my wedding ring now for the last month. It sits on my Computer key board.. W see’s it every day sitting there… I am going to put it back on Friday

Husband


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know