My L called this afternoon to check in w/ me and tell me he got my e-mail updates. He also said W's lawyer has yet to contact him regarding our proposal for custody of D. I'm guessing W didn't like our offer for equal time, so I'm not sure where we go now.
Yesterday, W offered for me to have D on Thursday and Friday and I didn't confirm it w/ her b/c I wasn't sure of the legal end at the time. However, after talkng to my T today, I've decided I'll contact my L about wanting to see my D this week. I'm hoping he'll say it is ok to do and we can get it going.
My T suggested that I'd be smart to get my D this week, not only because I really want to see her, but it can help me out against my W who is claiming she's afraid of me.
So, if I'm so scary, dangerous, and intimidating, why would she allow a 4year old to be with me unsupervised? It can only help my case to have time alone with my D, so I'm contacting my L about it tomorrow.
Otherwise, I haven't done too much today as I came home and watched a movie and now I'm looking forward to bed. Today seemed to go much easier than I had thought and I am thankful for all the great support I received from everyone throughout the day.
I'll be interested to see how big of a slip up I acutally made? Big one or small blip? Truth be told, I was seeing if she was on line, but wasn't planning on contacting her. Does the fact I was curious to see if she was on line a bit obsessive? I think it is an anti-DB move. The question is "did it get me closer to my goal? Probably not. But it should be forgotten soon as long as I don't check on her again.
Ok I'm about to pass out at the key board, so it is up to bed for me. Talk to you all later and I'm looking forward to your feedback.
