Your H is moving super fast it seems like. I thought mine was. Well, he did move in with her the same day he left. I know this sucks for you, but they are just bills. I try to tell myself that when something like that happens to me. Sometimes it calms me down and sometimes it does not. Thinking of you. Think of really pleasant things before you go to bed so you have sweet dreams. This helps me often.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him